Many people find themselves in relationships out of desperation and fears of not finding someone later on. They become scared of being lonely and even the fear of dying alone occurs. These desperate thoughts forces them to find anyone that gives them a chance. Even if that person isn't right for them. Even if that person does not have much in common.
They accept whoever gives them a chance and very often take consolation partners rather than the one they want. This is one of the reasons that so many relationships and marriages end or start getting difficult after long periods in recent times.
Waiting for chances to meet someone is mainly because you feel you don’t bring anything valuable to offer in a relationship. You lack the confidence to approach people on your own with fears of rejection. Many people do not build up their value and the things of importance that a great relationship requires so they feel inferior and afraid in searching.
If you know you bring a lot to the table, you won’t settle for chance meetings and people through passive interactions. You’ll know what you want and you won’t be afraid to say no until you do. Knowing you have value will bring value and will give you the confidence not to be with people who don’t bring the same. So, build value first and you’ll attract value from others.
Tag someone that would like my page or the things I talk about!
Like ❤ if you agree!
Drop a comment if you want to share your thoughts!
Drop a 💯 if you can relate! 😎
Lies often stated without considerable thought to protect a deceiver but can carry an overwhelming wealth of repercussions. It can forever destroy one's trust not only in the deceiver but in humanity as a whole. Let's endeavour to be the reflections of truth. Afterall, it is the truth that sets one free... #whenpoetryheals
or text "home" to 741741 if in crisis