Rant: I felt like someone needed this today. ✖️ Don’t ask why someone keeps hurting you, instead ask why you keep letting them. Why should you have to hope to be treated right? You choose who you fill your life with and who you surround yourself with. You choose how much you let someone treat you the same way over and over again. There’s toxic friendships and relationships people keep all the time because it’s “comfortable”. Unfortunately, we hardly expect those closest to us to hurt us- but the closer you are to someone- the deeper they are able to hurt you. So pay attention to the people around you and how they treat you and how you treat THEM. Maybe, they’re more of a ‘fan’ or yours, or even a customer: someone who comes to you for things but never gives. Maybe you’re literally being taken advantage of and you just can’t see it or choose not to deal with it because you’re scared of losing someone.
As somebody who has spent her whole life getting rid of toxic people, trust me when I say this:
God knows what you need to grow into the person you are going to become. Sometimes we DO need certain relationships to grow. But you NEVER have to put up with being mistreated, lied to, hurt, disrespected and or abused.
You are enough just being you without that person, and will have other friendships come and replace what is left behind. The people that you love in your life should never be the cause of stress, anger or confusion.
You can let go even when there’s history with someone, and it’s ok. You will be ok. 🖤🙌🏻
Makeup/ Photo: @glammbino .
Если ты думаешь, что у тебя ничего не осталось, у тебя все ещё есть закаты и рассветы, звёздное небо и луна, любимые книги и музыка, новые начинания и вторые шансы, целый мир за окном и сотни возможностей прожить эту жизнь незабываемо.